Don't let smart phones and cameras ruin your wedding pictures!

October 22, 2014  •  Leave a Comment

If you are one of my brides, or even if you are not, PLEASE read this! It is becoming such a HUGE problem in the photog world. Just remember you can't reshoot your wedding.If you are one of my brides, or even if you are not, PLEASE read this! It is becoming such a HUGE problem in the photog world.

 
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These Ruined Photos Will Make You Want to Have an Unplugged Wedding

by Corey Ann on 

Corey Ann is an award-winning photographer based in Northeast Ohio, and serving destinations in Ohio and worldwide. This post originally appeared on her blog.

Recently, the idea of “guest photographers” came up in one of the photography groups I am part of online, and someone asked what the big deal is. Why wouldn’t we want more people capturing images for our clients? I thought this was a great question! I don’t have a single problem with guests taking images and sharing them with the couple later. It makes me happy to know there will be other photos of moments I may have missed, or alternate angles that I couldn’t cover. I also completely understand that some have a love for capturing images and enjoy taking pictures at weddings when they are guests. However, my heart breaks when a guest ruins an otherwise lovely image or jumps in front of me when I’m capturing a key moment from the day.
Wedding photo ruined by guests || Lover.ly || Photo by Corey Ann
It completely slays me when this happens. While I am not remotely egotistical at all, I am fairly confident that my image would have been better than the one they captured. In my past seven years as professional wedding photographer, it’s been sad to watch the progression from seeing smiling, encouraging faces as the bride is escorted up the aisle to faces hidden behind the cameras and cell phones that line the aisle. These are all reasons why I am elated when I hear of couples opting for an unplugged wedding—or, at the very least, an unplugged ceremony.
Wedding photo ruined by guests || Lover.ly || Photo by Corey Ann
One thing there is absolutely NOTHING I can do to combat is a flash from a guest photographer’s camera. There is rarely anything that will save the image and no repositioning will change the outcome. The above photos are just two of the hundreds of images of the wedding processional that I’ve had ruined from a camera flash. (I rarely, if ever, use flash for the ceremony, so the light you see here is ALL from the one camera’s flash.)
Wedding photo ruined by guests || Lover.ly || Photo by Corey Ann
This girl’s father literally shoved me aside and gave me grief because I was blocking his daughter from standing in the aisle to get a picture. This sanctuary only had one aisle and very little room to move thanks to the small space that was filled with guests. I took this image to protect myself later in case the clients were upset that I had to stand slightly off-center for a portion of their day. Also? That Nintendo DS made the LOUDEST noises when it took pictures. It was crazy.
Since this image was taken four years ago the DSs have been replaced with iPads, which are a million times worse when it comes to eyesores.
Wedding photo ruined by guests || Lover.ly || Photo by Corey Ann
This kid’s dad yelled at my second shooter during a wedding and shoved his kid up in front to make sure he got an image with his iPhone during a destination wedding in Cozumel. Note: he wasn’t a guest of the wedding, just a guest of the resort.
Wedding photo ruined by guests || Lover.ly || Photo by Corey Ann
This whole situation broke my heart. In many churches, photographers are HEAVILY restricted as to where they can work, and the Heinz Chapel is one of the strictest I’ve ever worked at. We are only allowed to be outside of the sanctuary in the door opening where the center aisle is, and in the balcony. We are not permitted to move during the service. Thankfully, my second shooter was in the balcony, but that didn’t make these guests go away. Luckily, he was able to get images of the service where you could actually see the bride and groom. I argued, begged, and pleaded for the church lady guarding me to at least allow me to go into the side aisle so I could get a clear shot of my clients when these guests jumped into the aisle but I was not allowed. Instead, I just had to take what I could get and cry a bit on the inside.
I also want to add this: if you are a guest at the wedding, please make sure to withhold posting pictures of the bride and groom online until AFTER the ceremony. I can’t tell you how many “first looks” have inadvertently happened online before the wedding because a bridesmaid or groomsman has uploaded pictures to social media before the wedding and a bride and/or groom who were killing time by browsing Facebook saw their future intended before the ceremony. Don’t do it!!!!! And make sure that it's OK with the couple to share the images on social media later; sometimes people prefer to keep things quiet, and you don’t want to cause undue stress.
Wedding photo ruined by guests || Lover.ly || Photo by Corey Ann
Another image of a guest who jumped in front of me during a ceremony where I could not move to get around him.
Wedding photo ruined by guests || Lover.ly || Photo by Corey Ann
The flashes don’t quit for the service either, and with the white dress there isn’t a lot I can do to save these images.
Wedding photo ruined by guests || Lover.ly || Photo by Corey Ann
This almost made me cry. Not kidding.
I had my eye on this gentleman because he was standing up on the altar with the bride and groom during the service, but I was able to zoom and crop around the couple so that he wasn’t in too many of the images. But after the pronouncement of the couple, he swiftly moved and stood RIGHT IN FRONT OF ME during the first kiss. I jumped quickly to the side but I missed the quick kiss. Luckily I was still was able to capture the hug after, but I am still SO SAD that I missed their first kiss. I sure hope he got it…
I also felt doubly awful because I had to jump in front of other guests, and during a ceremony my goal is to never block a guest's view. I apologized profusely after the wedding, and thankfully they all were very sweet and understanding.
Wedding photo ruined by guests || Lover.ly || Photo by Corey Ann
Back to the Heinz Chapel, and as you can see, the guest did not move for the majority of the ceremony. I’m still sad when I look at this image.
Wedding photo ruined by guests || Lover.ly || Photo by Corey Ann
It doesn’t matter what kind of camera it is or how big or how small the flash is—the flash is almost always too bright to work with once it is fired.
Wedding photo ruined by guests || Lover.ly || Photo by Corey Ann
I really cringe when guests try to take pictures during formals. Not only am I generally under a time crunch, but the flashes ruin at least one or two shots in each batch I take. The subjects' eyes also tend to wander, and I rarely get everyone looking at me at the same time when there are multiple cameras present. This is the only time that I will sometimes tell guests that they have to stop taking pictures, and I have been told off more times than not when I’ve had to do this. However, my priority the day of the wedding is on my clients. I don’t care about the sale of the portraits, but I do care about the quality of the portraits, and if there is a circus going on behind me, it rarely ends well for anyone involved. So trust me when I beg and plead for you to tell people to put their cameras down and go enjoy the cocktail hour while we take some portraits with the special people in your life.
The reception generally is a time when I can quickly move if a guest decides to take pictures. But one time when I can’t move around them? The special dances.
Wedding photo ruined by guests || Lover.ly || Photo by Corey Ann
I do have to say, this little old guy does warm my heart a bit. He was pretty cute with his disposable camera even if it was a bit distracting when he wound the camera after each photo.
Wedding photo ruined by guests || Lover.ly || Photo by Corey Ann
Another guest deciding the first dance is a great time for that portrait of the bride and groom.
Wedding photo ruined by guests || Lover.ly || Photo by Corey Ann
This is another one that makes me a sad panda when I look at it. This guest came up at the last bit of the father/daughter dance and there was nowhere I could go to get her out of the picture. Luckily, I have numerous beautiful images from the dance, but the last hug is always my favorite.
Wedding photo ruined by guests || Lover.ly || Photo by Corey Ann
Another pet peeve of mine? THE RED (OR GREEN) DOT OF DOOM! As you can see in the above photo, these focusing beams are quite irritating because, again, there’s not a lot that I can do to get rid of them outside of turning the image black and white. (And even then, there will still be a light circle.) There have been quite a few images that I’ve had to toss due to these beams; this is just one of the many.
Bottom line: my priority the day of the wedding is on my clients. They have paid me their hard-earned money to make sure I document their wedding, and when an overzealous guest gets in the way, it makes me sad. I think most people don’t realize what they are doing and I'm writing this post hoping to educate even a few people. Either have an unplugged wedding or think of the professional photographer before jumping in the aisle for that perfect shot.
Last year, one of my friends got married and I was so thrilled to be her photographer that day. What was even more amazing was that she had an unplugged wedding after seeing pictures and reading my rants over the years about well-meaning guests who have inadvertently (or heck, even completely on purpose) ruined images. Prior to the ceremony, the officiant read this:

“Welcome, friends and family! Good evening everyone. Please be seated. Dan and Jennifer invite you to be truly present at this special time. Please, turn off your cell phones and put down your cameras. The photographer will capture how this moment looks—I encourage you all to capture how it feels with your hearts, without the distraction of technology. If Dan can do it, then so can you.”

 

I can’t tell you how many happy leaps of joy my heart did when I heard this! The guests all obeyed, and even after the ceremony, many decided to keep their arms down and their hearts open and actually enjoyed the day instead of being an observer from behind their cameras.
 
 

 


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